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Why do guys become mean and lazy weeks before breaking up w you?

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Anonymous 26w

its the same as when girls check out of a relationship a few months before

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Anonymous 26w

isn’t that selfish

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Anonymous 26w

…because they want to break up with you? Like what

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Anonymous 26w

They probably wanted you to break with them before they ended up breaking up with you instead.

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Anonymous 26w

Don’t ladies do the same they mentally check out before it’s actually over

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seeya_space_cowboy 26w

Ugh damn. I want to do the check out before breaking up w him but he beat me to it

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OP 26w

yk what you could do instead? just like a healthy break up. if you're not feelin it, leave like a half decent human being instead of dragging it out. idk tho dont @ me

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freestyle 26w

to treat someone like shit bc ur mentally checked out instead of just breaking up

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seeya_space_cowboy 26w

Seconded

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#5 26w

They can, in fact I was about to do that because of how lazy he was with me. I wanted to mentally check out before letting go but he ended up breaking up before I had the chance to start my process

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OP 26w

It’s so messed up because he had the chance to let go while still having me, treated me like shit for a few weeks, and now I have to let go on my own

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#2 26w

Yeah no weeks before is crazy but this is just a thing people do

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