Ask Men on Sidechat | Men: my guy best friend insisted I stay up with him after a night out (we are usually up until 3 am together), and when h said I was tired he made me stay. N I said I was sleeping in his room then (he had 2 beds in his dorm) and he said that’s fine.

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Men: my guy best friend insisted I stay up with him after a night out (we are usually up until 3 am together), and when h said I was tired he made me stay. N I said I was sleeping in his room then (he had 2 beds in his dorm) and he said that’s fine.

Anonymous 1d

omg bruh. Just ask him out.

Anonymous 1d

so I thought separate beds but didn’t want that secretly. But anyways we slept in same bed with minimal but a bit of cuddling. This is the second time we’ve slept in the same bed together. Would you do this with any girl friend?

Anonymous 1d

I'm a straight guy with many women friends and would never do this unless I knew for 110% sure my friend wanted to do it as much or more than I did, and I had massive feelings for her/we were already dating. Of course every person is different, but it's hard for me to imagine most people doing this unless they like someone. How are you feeling about this? So far, you talked about what happened, but I think the most important thing is what you'd wanna do next

Anonymous

OP 1d

No???

Anonymous

OP 1d

Fuck no!!!!

Anonymous

#4 1d

I used to like him

Anonymous

OP 1d

Gotcha, that's fair. Was there a reason you wanted to ask our take on this?

Anonymous

#4 1d

When he does this I feel those feelings again, but idk. He cuddled me once n then stopped himself but then two weeks later we spent the night together. He just ends me mixed signals and I wanted to make sure im not crazy

Anonymous

OP 1d

You definitely are valid for feeling confused because I agree, it's hard to imagine friends acting this way towards each other so I can see why you'd wonder if he has feelings. Have you considered talking to him about this or do you feel that wouldn't be good for either of you?