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what’s something you find attractive or unattractive in a woman that you think most women would be surprised by? i feel like we have different ideas of what’s attractive. like for me I have never cared about a man having abs but men seem to want them
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Anonymous 3w

I find lower belly pooch attractive

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Anonymous 3w

cockiness is v unattractive. but intelligence and confidence is attractive id say

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Anonymous 3w

I find helplessness unattractive! Meaning, i dislike women who play the damsel in distress for any minor thing…

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Anonymous 3w

I like a louder, more outgoing type. Like a woman who can command attention in a room/leader/opinionated or principled type. I don't like passive people in general for friends or dating. I also like plus size women. I also like makeup on a woman. I can always appreciate a good eye look or lipstick

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Anonymous 3w

I don’t find (bush, arms, legs, armpit) hair unattractive (yes double negative sorry)

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Anonymous 3w

eyebags (some) and smile wrinkles are very attractive. i find fake lashes and lip filler unattractive

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Anonymous 2w

Unattractive: Behavioral issues she can clearly deal with but is doing a “damsel in distress” thing hoping a man or woman or the government or some kind of political movement will come and save her from. Attractive: If takes care of little things in her life like pets, her car, plants, treats waiters and waitresses with courtesy, that sort of thing.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Amen

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

def agree

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

that’s a great answer, I’ve never rly been happy with the way my stomach looks but any time I’ve brought that up to a man they think I sound crazy lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Bush is hot (if not too much) but the rest aren’t things I care about

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Idk what’s wrong with me but I read this as like former US President George W. Bush is hot and that made me lol, thank u for commenting tho you’re a real 1 for not caring about body hair

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

those are really good answers ty, I also agree lip filler always looks bad if it’s noticeable

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Call me George W Bush the way I want her butterfly ballot 😭😭🙂‍↕️

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

she George on my Bush till i W!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Her W bush and my Dick Cheney 🙂‍↕️

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

LMFAO that’s perfect

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

Really?! I’ve been told by many men that I look “constantly exhausted” without makeup.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

Idk about eyebags but wrinkles def

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

arrogance is seriously the #1 most unattractive personality trait to me too

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

oh i love this answer, thank you so much for commenting. outspoken/outgoing women are often told to turn it down a notch or told we come off as “attention seeking” so i think it’s really really sweet that you said you like a woman who can “command attention in a room”, i love your outlook.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 3w

thats why i put "some", it really depends on the person imo

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

I’m the same with your first two points. I also like an outgoing woman. I don’t care for makeup, with or without makeup is fine.

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