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Ask Men 23w
How come this group is so hesitant towards sex? Specifically i see kink and fetish being demonized and i was wondering why some of yall may hold that perspective
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Anonymous 23w
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Anonymous 23w

There’s a lot of virgins on here who are insanely susceptible to propaganda 😬

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Anonymous 23w

The only kinks I’ll judge is scat and gore

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23w

I have noticed a bit of that, but idk if thats everything. It seems like in instances where ppl could think "not for me" they go "disgusting and youre a bad person for being into it"

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23w

I suppose if someone hasnt had sex before they wouldnt know that even dynamics based on power imbalance can be done safely and compassionately

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23w

We live in an era of moral outrage. Most people on YikYak don’t have shit to struggle against irl, but the brain is wired to almost always be working to solve a problem. If you have no problems, your mind just exaggerates whatever it can. Thats why you only really see Karens in 1st world countries. The people that you’re describing are basically Karens of sexuality lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 23w

Why gore? Its a fantasy and if two consenting ppl fuck eachother up where is the problem

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23w

Not that that falls under bdsm no there’s people who gets off to some dark shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 23w

Wdym dark shit? Cuz tmi but i am into gore and all the like things thatd kill you are just fantasy/fiction

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23w

Freshman year me and some friends were hanging out and one of them was in a triple so we went to their dorm one of his roommates were beating it to a beheading

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23w

wdym on here, most on the app are virgins have y’all looked at other communities holy shi. Other than school one all the other ones are weird

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 23w

Ok yeah while i typically am not keen on ascribing morality to sexuality i think in cases of real life abuse of power like that is personally quite distasteful. I think thats diff than a lot of the stuff i see on here tho demonizing kink in broad strokes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23w

With kinks it’s about specific details

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 23w

Yet manosphere type stuff puts so much value into sex appeal as a means of self worth :/ interesting to see how they intersect

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23w

We just want to be loved.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 23w

What does that have to do with anything??

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23w

Guys turn to the manosphere because they want to be loved, the focus on sex appeal and money is just a pretense for a deeper emotional need. Once guys realize that’s unfulfilling, they turn to Christ, who welcomes them with love and open arms.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 22w

si ok

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