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i dont get it honestly am i that chopped that i dont have a bf guys i have spoke to on snap tell me im cute and pretty etc but i dont get it is it something else most of them want to just hu
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Anonymous 4w

This sadly is pretty wide spread and on both sides, hookup culture is great for those who just want a hookup, but leaves people wanting more stranded

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Anonymous 4w

I doubt you’re chopped. It might just be hookup culture. I’m assuming you’re looking for something long term?

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Anonymous 4w

I wish I were you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

yea or not even long term like marriage or anything but i do want an act relationship were we can see a future together atleast for the time being yk not just like a little fling or something

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

idk it’s just hard not to overthink things when everyone around me is in a relationship i feel like something has to be wrong with me and none of my friends entertain hu culture either

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

It’s alright. I’m going through that same thing right now and am looking for a girl I can see a future with. All I can say is to keep trying. I doubt you’re inactive, especially if guys have said you’re cute. Statistically, if you try enough times, you’ll find the right man for you one day.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

wdym inactive LMAO

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Shit autocorrect😭 I meant to say “unattractive”.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

ur good LMAO

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

lol thank you. Point is, if you keep trying, you’ll find that man somewhere. Do you have a type you look for?

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