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I really need advice on how to get prettier. I’m moving to a new area soon and I want a new start where guys actually pay attention to me :)
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Anonymous 12w

Well I don’t know anything about you so could you describe what you look like?

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Anonymous 12w

Are you physically in good shape ?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

Tall, dark blond w highlights, hazel eyes, skinny

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

Yes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

That’s like 90% of it. My advice would be to think about people you find pretty and see if you can take elements or their fashion or hairstyle or make up routine

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

My biggest insecurity is my facial features not being pretty enough for guys. I don’t have a button nose or big blue or green eyes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

It might make you feel better anyway to try out different looks

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

Idk maybe :/

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

lol yes it will. You’re already blond and skinny so you’re right there, it might just take you changing a few things and building more confidence

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

There’s tons of other blonde and skinny girls out there with prettier faces than me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

It’s not about being the prettiest, it’s about taking care of yourself enough to get noticed and then working hard to build a closer relationship to a guy

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

I just think right now guys only view me as pretty enough for a hookup but not a long term relationship. Those other girls with the button noses are the ones they view as relationship material

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

I bet if you got a rhinoplasty you’d be surprised at how little your life changes. And I bet you don’t care about or notice anyone else’s nose but your own

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

Guys do care though

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Some guys care. You can’t appeal to every guy, you just need one to accept you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

If guys are wanting to hook up with you, then I think you have prettiness or physical attractiveness in the bag. If you’re having a hard time finding guys wanting a long term relationship, that sounds more related to personality than looks. Or perhaps the guys you are interacting with are stupidly stereotyping you based on your looks. Or it could have nothing to do with you and instead have to do with the guys you’re seeking out looking in general for something casual rather than serious.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

I’ve heard tons of times say some girls are only pretty enough for a “pump and dump” but not a relationship

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