Anonymous #1 3w

Ig murder could be understood in very certain scenarios but the other could never so maybe it is worse

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Anonymous #1 3w

i think murder can definitely be justifiable in cases of self defense. rape can never be justified

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Anonymous OP 3w

If it’s in self defense, then it is by definition not murder

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Anonymous #2 3w

then what is it? just the act of killing someone?

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Anonymous #2 3w

I rather be killed than raped. You don't have to live after being killed.

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Anonymous OP 3w

Homicide

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Anonymous #4 3w

Me being sexually assaulted definitely impacted my family

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Anonymous OP 3w

And I’d rather be raped than tortured to death, there are varying severities here

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Anonymous #2 3w

you’ve obviously never been raped. you are a shell of yourself. it’s like dying and being forced to breathe everyday. murder can be justified, rape cannot.

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Anonymous #3 3w

yeah agreed

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Anonymous #5 3w

I’m not saying it’s pleasant, don’t put words in my mouth. I’m saying that that is still preferable over being literally tortured to death, slowly dismembered while conscious, forced to feel every excruciating act inflicted upon you. That’s not to belittle the psychological impact of being raped, it’s horrible and traumatic, but do you see how or why someone would prefer one over the other? Again, it isn’t an easy choice to make

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Anonymous #2 3w

well i mean i have scars and had broken bones and had surgeries. i had a cracked skull, broken jaw, broken ribs, knife wounds, and more. plus the stigma and trauma. i was conscious and able to feel every act of violence against me. just because a man thought he was entitled.

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Anonymous #2 3w

this is starting to remind me of the whole "man vs bear" question. i asked this question on ask women too and they voted yes, where as here men voted no. it just goes to show why that debate was so controversial between the genders now since the majority of men don't view rape as worse than death. where women do

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Anonymous #4 3w

Yeah that’s completely wrong

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Anonymous OP 3w

I’d rather live

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Anonymous #1 3w

i don't think i'd be living after being raped. I think i'd just be surviving.

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Anonymous #6 3w

people downplay rape victim's trauma

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Anonymous OP 3w

Not only that a lot of people don’t believe the families of rape victims also suffer

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Anonymous #6 3w

tell that to our legal fees and court expenses

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Anonymous #6 3w

this exactly

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Anonymous #1 3w

Is it really living if you’re dead inside

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Anonymous #6 3w

I have too much fire to let it turn me into a husk forever. Though it’s definitely a more unforgivable act

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Anonymous #1 3w

You say that but you’re not gonna be the same after that

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