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Why do men catcall or whistle when driving by or honking?, I could be in an oversized hoodie leggings and all sweaty and disheveled and I still receive that behavior, I’m not that attractive and I still look like I’m 15
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Anonymous 1d

You already know the answer 🙄

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Anonymous 1d

I straight up don’t believe you unless you live in Brazil or something, no one is that horny

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Bro I got catcalled in my work uniform walking back to my car by these guys in a truck. People are that horny.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Got catcalled walking home genuinely sweaty and looking like a bum struggling to carry my groceries, but like I don’t know why they’re that horny? 🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

This happens everyday

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

Oh my bad sorry I thought that was a 90s movie thing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

i’ve had the exact same experience MULTIPLE TIMES. looking fugly as shit carrying groceries in sweats

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

Some just enjoy the power it makes them feel. It scares us and makes us uncomfortable and they get off on that. It doesn’t even matter what you look like

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 20h

Me when I just make up shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

this happens to me at least once a month, more if I’m walking downtown

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

Anecdotal on my part, but most of the women I’ve seen express their experiences about this mention receiving more attention and catcalling from grown men when they were kids/teens, and it went away when they became adults… catcalling itself is SO common.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 17h

Damn I didn’t know you spoke for all men. I guess you are a monolith

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 16h

What power? I don’t get it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6h

Physical and social power. You know what power is. Making someone else afraid can make the other person feel powerful

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6h

Yeah I still don’t get it, yelling in public would fill me with shame. Parents need to beat their kids, it’s the reason I was able to become an okay person

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4h

Okay? Wish I had the luxury of not getting it

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