Ask Men on Sidechat | This girl was flirting hard w me all night to the point ppl were commenting on it, then when I ask her out she says she’s not looking for anything, now a month later she’s implying she wants to hang, then pulls back and says let’s just hang w the group 🙄

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This girl was flirting hard w me all night to the point ppl were commenting on it, then when I ask her out she says she’s not looking for anything, now a month later she’s implying she wants to hang, then pulls back and says let’s just hang w the group 🙄

12 upvotes, 14 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Ask Men. "This girl was flirting hard w me all night to the point ppl were commenting on it, then when I ask her out she says she’s not looking for anything, now a month later she’s implying she wants to hang, then pulls back and says let’s just hang w the group 🙄"

Anonymous 4w

she’s just nervous

Anonymous 4w

Idk about what happened a month ago, but based on this screenshot as a guy I agree with #1’s assessment. She’s probably not sure if you’re genuinely busy or just uninterested and trying to be polite. I’d maybe ask her if she’s free earlier in the week.

Anonymous 4w

Sick of these games

Anonymous 4w

Welp

Anonymous 4w

Not a question

Anonymous 4w

if a girl‘s not interested, you literally stop trying that’s embarrassing on your end. you’re chasing someone who’s laughing at you

-2

Anonymous

OP 4w

so stop entertaining

Anonymous

#2 4w

im a girl and from my pov i think shes def interested she literally asked what he was up to that weekend but he was busy so she said “oh ok” that’s normal? Op should take a hint and ask her out. i dont think she’s pushing for a group hangout INSTEAD so much as trying to make you feel better about being busy by saying like “oh no big deal maybe ill see you at this other thing then.” it’d be really romantic if he asked her to dinner or something

Anonymous

#1 4w

Yeah ig it’s just last time she was giving me like every green light in the book and then told me she’s not looking to date when I asked her out so I’m looking for something more definite from her

Anonymous

OP 4w

hit her with a “we should hang out” and “lemme buy you dinner” and see what she says. that’s not only hot and pretty romantic, but it’s also not framed as a DATE date. you could even say “i promise i won’t try to propose 🙄” if you wanted to be funny. she’s DEF interested in you there’s no doubt about that. she might just be a little hesitant to jump into a relationship. i’ve def been in her position before and after a few dates she’ll be much more likely to reconsider when she knows you better.

Anonymous

OP 4w

stop taking advice from these guys!!! SHE LIKES YOUUUUU!!!! and also it’s really hard for girls to work up the nerve to dm first she probably had to hype herself up to even send that and is just a little embarrassed that you said you’re busy. i don’t think she’s really trying to play games. she might just not be sure how to go about liking you so id say just invite her to a cute, no pressure hang out (not your bed, not a 5 star restaurant)

Anonymous

OP 4w

she probably literally just means shes busy during the week. she’s probably got work/school. most dates go late in the night also it might sound like you’re implying that yall hook up which also happens late at night. say “ok” “weekend?”

Anonymous

#1 4w

Well asked her if the weekend works and she said she’ll just see me at the group meetup on Friday 🤷🏼‍♂️

Anonymous

OP 4w

okay this is your chance then. you gotta chat her up on friday. if you’re bold you can even say in person “now how come you won’t let me buy you dinner?” and see how she responds. persistence is hot. if i didn’t think she were interested i wouldn’t encourage you like this and i’d tell you to back off, but she definitely is. she’s just a little scared. that’s chill. if she responds unfavorably just throw your hands up and smile and say “alright! message received” and be chill. you got this bro