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actually how do you talk to guys at the bar, i’m straight but everytime i go i end up leaving with 6 girls’ numbers😭
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Anonymous 2w

If you see a guy you like just go up and say “Hey I saw you from across the bar and wanted to know if I could get your number?” Guys are almost never approached so you don’t have to do anything special to get their attention. You don’t have to stay and talk to them after getting the number either, you can walk away and introduce yourself over text.

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Anonymous 2w

Talk to them like you talk to girls? Complement them and make convo and see how it goes

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Anonymous 2w

It took me a second to realize you were a girl!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Would you rather: 1. A group of guy friends that are always willing to hang but you have no rizz. 2. Unlimited rizz but no guy friends.

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 1w

Unlimited video games but no bacon

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

i should’ve been more clear😭 when i mean i get girl’s numbers it’s in a oh i made a new friend type way

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

i just have a fear of rejection, like what if i do and they’re like ugh get away from me ugly fatty. no but ur right im gonna do this next time

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Anonymous replying to -> pirosnake 1w

thank you!! i’ll do this next time

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

U don’t have to ask for their number right away so u can gauge whether u will be rejected. Women are less intimidating than men so it’s less likely you will scare him unless u do something very bad which I doubt u would lol

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