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Guys why are the results here so different?
5 upvotes, 14 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Ask Men. "Guys why are the results here so different?"
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Anonymous 21w

Tbh I don’t think you need to tell your partner either as long as it’s not happening while you date

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Anonymous 21w

Both should to be communicated imo.

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Anonymous 21w

The top one is related to sexual health. If you read the comments you’d understand why people voted no. The second one I don’t care about.

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Anonymous 21w

You know why

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Anonymous 21w

Also, looking back at this, I’m realizing the phrasing of “have to” versus “should” could have also contributed.

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Anonymous 21w

Hypocrisy

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Anonymous 21w

Bc one is “empowering” women and one isn’t

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Anonymous 21w

I only reason I can think of is sexist double standards tbh.

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Anonymous 21w

🐸☕️

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Anonymous replying to -> forget_me_not 21w

It absolutely is not about sexual health. We establish sexual health via STD tests.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21w

Did you read the comments of the posts? Either post

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Anonymous replying to -> forget_me_not 21w

It doesn't matter what the comments say, there is a scientific way to determine sexual health and asking private questions for the purpose of casting judgement on someone's character is not it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21w

Ive never heard of someone asking their new partner for an STD test though. Not without reason at least, and a long sexual history would be a good enough reason.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21w

Ngl its also just kinda gross like every time we screwing im worried im not matching up. On top of that if kids a possible future factor possible bullying sooo. And i actually think that if you have a pornography adiction that needs to be laid out on the table

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