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Ask Men 29w
why is is so easy for other guys to pick up women when i can’t even get ONE to notice me?
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Anonymous 29w

The "other" you are talking about is a minority of men, things are hard because our social structures are broken.

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Anonymous 29w

Just lock in brother, you got that

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Anonymous replying to -> stanczyk 29w

doesn’t seem like a minority when it’s every dude around me 😭

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