tbh (as a woman) i think it’s weird that men expect women to take their names. hyphenating seems like the best approach

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i think we should create a new last name that is more unique than either of our names

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I love my last name and dont wanna change it, and i would also never expect her to change hers so we can just keep our respective names

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She would have to have a really really good last name for me to change mine

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Not really a big deal, I would take hers. But it also depends what it is...I'm not changing my surname to Butts 😶

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Probably wouldn’t date a woman who cares that much about toppling the patriarchy to begin with but hyphenated is fine

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