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Do you have to sleep with her before getting into a relationship with her? Or prefer to wait till you both are in a relationship together to have sex?
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Got to have sex before
Prefer waiting to be exclusive
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Anonymous 1d

I'm ace so I personally don't like to do anything with someone until we're together!

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Anonymous 22h

This is surprising..

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Anonymous 18h

im fine with both

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Anonymous 8h

I'm not really in a spot to date right now but I'd absolutely love to go fwb with someone so

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Anonymous 20h

Honestly I don’t think it matters to me personally? I like to be friends before I start dating someone but that includes being like, fwb. But it doesn’t have to be that, either.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

Very. Wasn’t expecting this outcome at all😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

Mind you each and every guy you talk to irl. it’s the complete opposite soooo idk what this is. All they want is hookups and casual.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h

If it’s going for a relationship, not at all. I want to get to know you first.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20h

We find this surprising because we’ve heard from many men before (via in person/online posts) that they would like to test physical chemistry before being exclusive… 😭 cause physical mattered a lot to them in a relationship. so I guess that’s just a lie to extend casual sex or they are just avoidants?? Idk lmao. I never partook in this myself but I was curious what y’all thought and I’m kinda shocked

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 20h

Were you the only 1%?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h

I skipped voting. I don’t *have* to have sex before getting in a relationship w someone and I’ve had it work out well either way

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18h

If you’ve had it work out well both ways, clearly the first way didn’t work out very long

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 18h

worked out longer than the second way lol

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