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Help he just told me he just got out of a 4 year relationship shouldn’t he take time to heal?
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Anonymous 5w

Yes I got out of a 1.5 year relationship almost exactly a year ago and am just now considering dating again Every situation is different, but not taking any time off is crazy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

What do I do?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Am I a rebound

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Befriend him and his circle to get a better read on his mental state and the reasons his last relationship ended and see if you still wanna be involved with him If so, you can try to transition from friend to romantic interest in a few months

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Don’t let him make you a situationship though, so don’t give him the idea that you’ll give him casual sex with no commitment when you actually want a relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Oh wait he just told me it was just he just got out of him, but he told me it was middle of last year ?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Try to get an actual date out of him, and be wary of him still having contact with his ex Honestly, befriend the ex or one of her friends to get her side of the story if you can, you never know what actually happened

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I’m not friends with his ex I don’t even know his exact?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

But I think you love mommy he keeps saying I want cuddles. You are so nice. I miss you.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

He’s love bombing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Detective skills! Do you know any of his social media profiles? Look to see if he, his friends, or his family are following her or have her tagged anywhere If you genuinely have no idea what this girl even looks like, wait it out and see if you can get more info or trust your gut and believe him if he says they don’t have contact

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I don’t have socials….

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