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he broke up w me cause he lost feelings 2 wks ago but we had a sleepover yesterday when we were both drunk and he was super affectionate.. does he like me again??

Anonymous 16h

First off, sorry to hear about the break up. I hope you're doing okay since that's always tough. In terms of your question, that's odd and I'm not sure what to make of it either. Have you thought of talking to him about this?

Anonymous 7h

Sleepover or hookup? Because a sleepover could go either way, but hookup, he’s just horny, doesn’t mean he loves or respects you though.

Anonymous

#1 16h

I probablt will if I see him again but idk im pretty confused cause he was holding me so tight the whole night like he didn’t wanna let me go

Anonymous

OP 15h

That's understandable you'd be confused, I would be too if I was in a similar situation. I personally think you should talk to him about this the next time you see each other so that you all can figure out what's the next best step for you two! I definitely think it sounds like maybe he wants to get back with you, but it's hard to know for sure. Do you want you all to try again or do you feel unsure

Anonymous

#1 15h

unsure just bc he did say he lost feelings so it’s complicated ig but ik for me it’s normal for feelings to fluctuate so

Anonymous

OP 15h

That's very understandable, I think you could tell him that too but if you're curious what's going on, it'd be good to talk about this with him to clear up the mixed signals

Anonymous

#1 15h

ngl im just scared the question will be too much pressure for him

Anonymous

#2 7h

No hookup we just cuddled