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okay men, wyd if a bigger girls comes up to you at the bar and starts and conversation or starts flirting?

Anonymous 9w

Yall are so mean in these comments😭 what if it was the other way around and it was a big guy trying to approach women?

Anonymous 10w

Closing my tab an going home

Anonymous 10w

Talk with her for a bit. I like meeting new people in general. If we click, awesome, if not that’s ok too

Anonymous 9w

I’d politely inform her that I already have a girlfriend. If hypothetically I was single, then it would depend on how the conversation goes.

Anonymous 10w

Depends if i find her attractive

Anonymous 10w

I’ll take what I can get

Anonymous 10w

How big we talking

Anonymous 10w

U got respectfully tell em no

Anonymous 10w

Leaving instantly bc I’m not supposed to be at a bar anyway, and if a woman is coming to flirt with me it’s a test from God

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Anonymous 10w

if her cute friend doesn’t appear in the convo soon then she’s getting the convo kindly but swiftly shut down

-6

Anonymous 10w

Big girls are like lime bikes and e-scooters, fun to ride until your friends catch you

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Anonymous 10w

Point her in the direction of my desperate or easy friend

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Anonymous

#4 10w

oh…

Anonymous

#5 10w

idk how to measure that. my waist is 35 if that helps

Anonymous

#2 10w

okay thx

Anonymous

#1 10w

how

Anonymous

OP 10w

“I’m gay”😭😭😭😭😭💔😭💔😭💔💔😭💔😭💔😭💔😭💔😭💔

Anonymous

#1 10w

that’s kinda mean but okay

Anonymous

#6 10w

why should non skinny women have to be with people who desperate?

Anonymous

#7 10w

it’s a hypothetical question

Anonymous

OP 10w

My desperate friend and easy friend are the only two in my friend group who are single

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Anonymous

#6 10w

so why answer the question if you’re not single?

Anonymous

OP 10w

You asked what I would do and that’s what i would do

Anonymous

OP 10w

And who said I wasn’t single

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Anonymous

#6 10w

you said their the only ones in your friend group who are single. you are in your friend group.

Anonymous

OP 10w

Yeah but when it comes to dating I don’t include my self cuz I’m not dating till I’m done with grad school

Anonymous

OP 10w

I’m married to the books

Anonymous

#6 10w

okay i was just asking a hypothetical question

Anonymous

OP 10w

And I answered it truthfully

Anonymous

#6 10w

okay thanks for the feedback!

Anonymous

OP 10w

You’re welcome

Anonymous

#9 10w

this doesn’t really make sense or answer my question but sure

Anonymous

OP 9w

“I have a boyfriend”

Anonymous

#13 9w

Do the same thing

Anonymous

#6 9w

Yeah if a big guy approached me in the club I would direct him towards my less attractive desperate friend, how nice

Anonymous

#13 9w

men care about looks more than women do so the don’t care about being mean unfortunately. but lucky for me, i love big boys 🤞

Anonymous

OP 9w

It’s so odd how men care more about looks but put so much less effort into being attractive themselves

Anonymous

#13 9w

that’s the patriarchy unfortunately 😔

Anonymous

#13 9w

I ain’t ever say my friend is less attractive he’s jus a little awkward plus I ain’t lookin for nothin till after grad school

Anonymous

#6 9w

i fear you’re missing the point

Anonymous

OP 9w

No I’m not societal norms says anyone not in perfect shape that’s white can’t be attractive which simply isn’t true

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Anonymous

#6 9w

Huh ??

Anonymous

#13 9w

If you’re not white or skinny or got perfect skin or anything else that makes someone them the world says they can’t be pretty which is false

Anonymous

#6 9w

That’s what you believe?

Anonymous

#13 9w

It’s what I’ve experienced and seen with my own eyes

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Anonymous

#6 9w

What is even your point dude

Anonymous

#13 9w

The world says you can’t be pretty if you don’t check all of their made up boxes but that’s bull shit cuz what makes some one pretty is on the inside

Anonymous

#13 9w

Girls don’t care about that really

Anonymous

#13 9w

It’s not odd at all because if women care less about looks, then men don’t need to put so much effort into their looks. Unless they’re trying to get the attention of other men

Anonymous

OP 9w

It means he likes you but he’s afraid he’ll be judged by others for it.

Anonymous

#12 9w

That’s just not realistic tho.. both women and men follow their own gender in beauty standards. If we based female beauty standards off men’s preferences then heavy makeup would not be as prevalent as it is. But alas women get their standards of beauty from other women

Anonymous

#12 9w

And it’s the same with men, women dont like guys who look like body builders, dudes like that stuff

Anonymous

#13 9w

Except that very few guys are actually trying to look like body builders. In fact, only body builders really look like body builders. Most guys are somewhere from vaguely athletic to completely out of shape, generally leaning more toward the latter.

Anonymous

#12 9w

Point is women base our beauty standards off other women and men base their beauty standards off other men..

Anonymous

#13 9w

I love a man who puts in extra effort into his appearance, wearing concealer for special occasions, dressing stylish, having a thorough self care routine, ect. Stuff that other men make fun of..

Anonymous

#13 9w

But that’s dumb everyone should base beauty standards off what they think tru beauty is

Anonymous

#1 9w

💀

Anonymous

#13 9w

Okay and the guys who do that are generally… gay. Because they want to impress men, and men tend to care more about looks.

Anonymous

#12 9w

And I’m saying women do care about looks even if you believe otherwise.. like I said I’d love for a man to care about his own looks like care about mine, and I think a lot of girls feel the same🤷🏻‍♀️