"You have a nice smile" I had an rbf the whole day, but when she said that it made me smile lol. i think that was her goal

20

“It’s okay, I know I make you nervous “ SHIT ATE ME UP

10

“Drinking alcohol is kind of a girly thing now days.” She had a good explanation about how she feels safer when the guys are sober and the girls have a couple drinks. Like she’s better protected/taken care of and can enjoy the night more.

5

“I’m the only person who believes in you” That shit tore me up when she asked for a break while going home for the holidays and I didn’t have concrete proof. Literally changed my life, through it I realized I could be right about her, feel secure, and yet be insecure at the same time. I realized I couldn’t believe in the current version of myself. Now I’m a much happier person, still celibate even though she did me wrong, but my values have changed, it’s just a part of the process.

4

You’re not that bad

1

“I wouldn’t think you had social anxiety”

1

Honestly any genuine compliment

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“You’re a *good guy*, man”

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“You’re a 4/10 on a good day” after asking someone out

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