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Ask Men 5d

how to tell if a guy actually just wants to be your friend or if he does want you

Anonymous 5d

You ask

Anonymous 5d

It’s not a zero-sum game, those are two completely separate questions. And in both cases, it depends. Are you hot? And are you likable?

Anonymous 4d

You play russian rullet, and find out by doing a move. You only live once act like it. Only 86,400 seconds in a day of which you waste most of them so make them count before u dead

Anonymous 3d

Anonymous

#1 5d

There are some signs, but everyone is different. The only way to truly know is to hear it come from their mouth

Anonymous

#3 4d

the thing is, i dont want him to like me

Anonymous

OP 4d

Then just ignore it

Anonymous

#2 4d

I think this is the wrong way to think about it, because it relies on one’s perception of themself when the situation is regarding another’s perception of themself. Like I don’t see myself as hot, but yet I’m in a loving relationship. I see plenty of people who I think are ugly and unlikable in loving relationships

Anonymous

#2 4d

Having a positive perspective of yourself is important in general, but that’s different from assuming that everyone will see you the way you see yourself. Anyone would be completely delusional to think that way. hot and likable are subjective to a great extent. The answer lies more in internal confidence, and how the object of your affection interacts with you

Anonymous

#1 4d

Ik OP isn’t into this guy, just wanted to get this point out