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I recently started talking to this guy and I really like him but I am a victim of DV and 🍇, but idk how to tell him and I am worried he is going to lose interest in me because of it
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Anonymous 1d

If he loses interest because of something like that then he is not someone you'd wanna be with

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Anonymous 1d

Don’t feel pressured to tell him if you don’t feel comfortable or it’s not relevant. But also, like #1 said, if he genuinely loses interest because of that he isn’t someone you want to be with. More likely than him genuinely losing interest though, he could become overly cautious or feel as though he needs to walk on eggshells to avoid triggering you, which could come across as losing interest, so you might need to provide him some reassurance as to what you want from him.

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Anonymous 23h

Im a girl and been through the same but in my experience don’t tell them unless ur serious or dating cause theres guys I’ve regretted telling

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

#1 is right

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