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I had this conversation with my dad earlier today: would you propose to a girl even if you haven’t met her father yet?
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Anonymous 20h

Yeah so what if they’re not close. I’m with her not the dad.

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Anonymous 15h

Depends on how close the family is lk

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

I’m not saying you have to ask for his blessings especially if they are not close, doesn’t feel right. But at least know who he is?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

There’s levels to this. If she just isn’t close to her father because she just isn’t but there is not like any past issues. I probably would push to meet him. However, if she tells me that he’s not worth knowing for multiple reasons that are continually bad (like domestic abuse, violent behavior, abandonment)Then yeah I’m gonna propose without meeting him.

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