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why do some men not moan genuinely curious
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Anonymous 2w

At least for me, I don’t naturally moan when I’m feeling good, it’s a conscious decision to make sound. I still do it because partners I’ve had enjoy it, but it doesn’t “slip” out or anything unless the feeling is extremely intense

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Anonymous 2w

I dont feel much down there

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Anonymous 2w

Literally as a female if a man isn’t moaning, I can’t enjoy it. I like hearing you enjoy me

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Anonymous 2w

I’m not strong if I do that

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Anonymous 2w

It feels somehow… emasculating… and I’ve never had sex so intense that would make me moan

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Anonymous 2w

ngl would just keep pleasuring till i heard a noise i dnt like silence

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Anonymous 2w

It’s like asking women “why don’t you do a self pat down before leaving the house”. Most guys do it subconsciously because we don’t want to forget our wallets, but for you it would probably require conscious thought.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

What does that even mean

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

I’m not a man if I do that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

why aren’t you strong? is it because you’re showing emotion?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Basically

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I didn’t know gender was defined by having reactions to sexual pleasure

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

It’s not. Obviously I enjoy getting pleasure from sex.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

The moaning is what makes it obvious though

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

socialization can make men feel that way (i’ve been informed)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

there are other things that make it obvious my man doesn’t moan but shakes like a mother fucker

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Idk I just wish men wouldnt suppress natural reactions to pleasure I get it’s due to the patriarchy/misogyny and it’s hard to undo that socialization but like

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

You can say it’s “socialization” all you want, but having no emotions is the only thing that gets rewarded. You actively get punished for having emotions.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

real, i wish more men were comfortable in their body and existing in the moment

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

ok what?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Only if you’re with people who promote toxic masculinity, not everyone believes in forcing men and women to act a specific way

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

you described socialization wdym

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

It seems like a lot of men do elect not to make sound for some reason but I’ve never felt I needed to

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Anonymous replying to -> oranguru 2w

It would be kinda unnatural for me to moan or sumn

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

100% this

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Don’t engage with #1, they’re trolling

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2w

I’m literally not.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

That’s not misogyny nor patriarchy

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2w

Conditioning men to believe that it’s only women who are outwardly emotional and vulnerable is a patriarchal mindset and misogynistic

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Believing shit like this is why no one will ever fertilize your eggs.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2w

It’s true, and if that was supposed to be an insult it’s actually a great compliment to me, I hate the idea of pregnancy

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

If you guys hate feeling like you’re expected to “man up” all the time then you should be wanting to fight sexism lol it’s a result of misogynistic societal structures

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Stay losing, queen ✌️

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2w

Can’t argue with stupid I guess

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2w

holy uneducated

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2w

i hope positivity enters your life it seems like you need it

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