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He’s admitted to me he can’t date me despite having feelings for me because he doesn’t want to do long distance. We also can’t seem to stop talking either bc neither of us want to and idk what to do. He’s graduating this yr
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Anonymous 3w

if distance is his only excuse i say do your best to move on. he’s not committed enough

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Anonymous 3w

avoidant and long distance is a nightmare combo. it may be hard but you'd easily find something better elsewhere

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Anonymous 3w

Move on.

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Anonymous 3w

It’s not gonna work out he doesn’t want it to

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Anonymous 3w

This year as in a month from now?

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Anonymous 3w

I honestly agree. Long distance relationships do NOT work! it’s just setting up one for failure! He made everything clear.

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Anonymous 3w

And when we spent months not talking I found out through two of his friends that he wouldn’t stop talking abt me and wouldn’t hu w other women. I just don’t think it makes any sense. Can an avoidant man explain?

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Anonymous 3w

He’s wasting ur time. Sounds manipulative and leading y on.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

or maybe he just doesn't want a long distance relationship lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

It means he likes the idea of being with you, but not enough to actually put in the effort to make being with you work when it gets difficult.

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