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Ask Men 12w
Hooked up with this guy a few days ago then he asked me out to get drinks yesterday and afterwards, we just cuddled and he never tried to even have sex What does this mean 😭
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Anonymous 12w

Or he just didn’t want to have sex it’s still casual I imagine but it’s not a requirement to hook up every time

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Anonymous 12w

He probably was tired

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Anonymous 12w

Idk I’m so touch starved I feel like cuddling is better than sex

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Anonymous 12w

He was probably tired and drunk… don’t take it personally.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

Ok so it’s not like I was just bad in bed right lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Nah he probably just didn’t sleep much or worked a lot before or something like that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

If that were the case, he wouldn’t have asked you out again

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12w

Oh I’m not complaining at all, I love cuddling, it’s just that it was not what I was expecting

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

I guess, but in my head casual = hooking up

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

Ok fair, thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

Thank u!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Right but unfortunately male supremacy teaches us that the only acceptable role for men is to desire sex all the time

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

I mean I don’t know if it’s a men thing, when I think of casual, I just think of sex. Same with my gfs. Not saying guys have to desire sex all the time, it’s just a perspective on the definition of casual for me 🤷‍♀️

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