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The very attractive guy I started dating just told me I'm his first girlfriend. We had sex on the first date (woops) and he also asked me out. I'm so confused if he's a player or just inexperienced bc he could definitely get women. Am I overthinking??
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Anonymous 12w

Getting a gf as a man is nearly impossible

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Anonymous 12w

If he’s a player that means your special to him. If he’s inexperienced then you’re also very special to him. First girlfriends always are

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Anonymous 12w

I’ve known some pretty good looking dudes that are awkward, not good at flirting, or just bad at keeping a girls interest and so it took/is taking them a while to find a girlfriend. If he’s a player and this is a lie, he’s probably shitty in other ways so if he seems to be a generally good guy I’d just assume he’s inexperienced

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Anonymous 12w

Girl run

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

No he’s a sensitive young man ! Neger having a gf is boyhood

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

No wait let her speak should I be scared rn

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Dont be scared. You don’t even have complete information about him yet

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12w

That simply isn’t true. My girlfriend and I immediately clicked

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

I think they may be saying you shouldn’t get with someone inexperienced, which I don’t think is fair to generalize

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

A mere exception to the rule

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

it's easy to click with the right person. it's hard to meet the right person though

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