Sidechat logo
Download TikTok Instagram X
Sidechat icon
Join communities on Sidechat Download
Ask Men icon
Ask Men 13w
How do I feel comfortable near men again? I always get so anxious near men
comment

8
upvote 31 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 13w

Why are you anxious?

upvote 2 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 13w

Are you in college

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 13w

I suggest therapy as this may be from a trauma (and men being the trigger isn’t something you’ll just “get over”)

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 13w

Therapy is an ass comment. Just hang out with friends and mutuals and eventually you’ll realize most men aren’t anything to get anxious about

upvote 0 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Yes

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Join clubs with ur friends and befriend guys with ur friends as a group

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 13w

“Therapy” is too broad imo. OP would need to choose what type of therapy if they choose to go that route. CBT for example would do things like I suggested as exposure therapy

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Exposure therapy wouldn’t help with this if it’s trauma related, I said “therapy” bc you can’t decide a type without knowing the issues and therefore a generalized therapist/counselor would be able to figure that out.

upvote 1 downvote