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I saw a man online say that he dislikes when women approach him, as men should be the ones leading, and he would be disinterested in the type of woman who would approach him. Agree?
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Anonymous 20h

As a women, I understand why men can feel hesitant to approach women, so I always thought of women approaching as something that men might appreciate

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Anonymous 20h

Right like imagine what other things he wont let you do? Like what kind of fragile ass ego statement is that. A woman approaching first would e more flattering than anything.

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Anonymous 20h

Idk, a woman approaching me first takes all the guesswork out of the entire interaction. I’d be happy. Kinda seems like a sad way to shut ppl down. Guess he can stay lonely and miserable. That legit sounds miserable.

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Anonymous 16h

FUCK no I don't agree. PLEASE approach me, cuz I'm NEVER gonna approach you

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Anonymous 21h

I completely disagree and tbh, that guy to me sounds very misogynistic because he is implying only men are allowed to make the first move which is super problematic on many levels

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Anonymous 15h

My boyfriend doesn’t have Yik yak but said we’re together because I made the first move, it made him a lot more confident and comfortable openly flirting

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Anonymous 15h

i’m just going to go ahead and say it that i feel like the majority of guys will not agree with him because i know i sure don’t, takes the weight off my shoulders to get approached because women do not like to be approached so like it just makes the conversation easier if they approach me instead of me feeling like im offending you by talking to you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

Yeah, if a man believes that then he’s definitely not worth dating

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

I totally agree because almost certainly, he has other misogynistic views as well if he thinks this

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