Anonymous #1 11w

Also when you get a chance to have a heart to heart explain that you have issues with guys thinking you’re flirting with them. That should give them the picture.

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Anonymous #1 11w

If they aren’t gay why would they lie? Lying about who you are isn’t a good way to make good relationships

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Anonymous #5 10w

Some of my best friends are with the opposite gender

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Anonymous #3 10w

Bro get lost lol. Men bond with men as friends because we’re men. Too many emasculated men nowadays. Sad

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Anonymous #5 10w

Are you not friends with women? That’s just weird to say you can’t be friends with nearly half the population of the world because they are a different gender. I bond with people as friends because I’m a person. Too many guys scared to be friends with women nowadays. Sad

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Anonymous #3 10w

No you’re just more emasculated by the culture. Men need other men to bond and become men. You can’t do that with a female. Why do you think there are fraternities and sports teams and men hang out with their buddies for guys night. It’s because it’s all about bonding and masculine affirmation. A lot of you are brainwashed.

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Anonymous #3 10w

Your best female friend should be your wife

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Anonymous #5 10w

No I’m good. My best girl friend and I aren’t compatible dating wise. Our relationship types don’t click. Plus she’s in a relationship with a woman lol. But I’m not going to stop being friends with her because of that. I don’t make friends with the purpose of dating. I make friends because I like the people. My friends have helped me out a lot. Ngl man you just sound sad. I am friends with men and women because I don’t care about gender I care about if they’re a good friend

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Anonymous #3 10w

Bro you’re afraid of your own masculinity. You’ve bought into the feminist lie of “toxic masculinity”. You feel safer with the feminine. Honestly I think you’re afraid to be around other men because you don’t feel secure in your own masculinity. You’ll laugh and think I’m crazy but you know it’s true. It’s actually unhealthy for you to have female friends.

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Anonymous #3 10w

Of course you don’t care about gender. You’re brainwashed by the lie of trying to blend the genders. Sorry bro but males and females are totally different and always will be. They are two distinct genders and very different

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Anonymous #3 10w

You’re soft and have the mentality of “I’m cold with anyone as a friend because I don’t see gender” that’s because the culture wants you to believe that. You can’t ignore there are males and females and males should have close bonds with males. Females should have close female friends.

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Anonymous #3 10w

Your problem is you think it’s harmless. Every man must have male friends who affirm his masculinity. Females can’t do that for you. There are issues guys deal with that only other men would understand. How the heck are you gonna talk to a female about male issues that only males would understand.

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Anonymous #5 10w

I’m not afraid to be around other men though lol. What are you even talking about? I have a lot of guy friends too. I’m not brainwashed at all. Men and women can be friends. They should be friends. I think it’s important to have first with different perspectives so you’re not stuck in an echo chamber. I think it’s so strange that you say I’m afraid of men when I am really not. I’m not feminine much at all

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Anonymous #5 10w

I’m not soft in fact. “The culture wants you to believe”? No. I just know that having friends is normal. You not having friends is actually just sad

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Anonymous #3 10w

Your problem is you originally said “some of my best friends are females”. That’s sad bro

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Anonymous #5 10w

It’s not unhealthy to have friends that are women. That’s crazy shit bro. I an extremely secure in my masculinity and am around other men all the time. I don’t feel safer “with the feminine”. I just feel safe with my friends, male or female

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Anonymous #5 10w

I do have male friends, stupid. I talk with my guy friends about guy problems. That’s why I find it important to also have friends that are women lol. You just seem like a weirdo. Are you sure you even like women? You seem to not want to be around them

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Anonymous #5 10w

It’s really not. We’ve been friends since elementary school. I’ve been to their weddings

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