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Why don’t guys just tell girls they don’t want to see them anymore? Why do they lie and make things up instead
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Anonymous 9w

U Can’t handle the truth

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Anonymous 9w

Because they want sex??

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Anonymous 9w

Because girls typically don’t take that very well.

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 9w

They dont know i’m a straight shooter

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 9w

It seems more like they cant man up to the truth

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 9w

If someone cant state the facts without pissing their pants, that’s their problem it has nothing to do with me

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

Wym

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Look at how u reacted bro u just did way 2 much

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

Like how

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 9w

Nah maybe its just something you cant handle. Normal adult conversation bro

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

They unironically cannot take no for an answer, they don’t even register it as a no

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

Thanks for explaining I think sometimes when girls are given reasons for no, they try to find ways to “solve the problem” so it can be a yes They usually need to be told straight up “i dont want to be with you,” and if they cant accept that they have a problem lowkey. Most of the times tho, if a guy says reasons it wont work between them, a girl tries to make a solution. She’s confused and doesnt get you dont want her. Thats usually because the guy is softening the blow, be straight up

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

They see it as a malfunction. As something that guys “aren’t supposed to say” and so therefore there must be something wrong that is causing him to decline. Most of the time it’s as simple as we don’t feel like it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

Nah what i’m saying is men a lot of times dont just tell a woman that they don’t want to be with them, but men should tell this to women. Cause when a guy says, “i cant be with you for X reason” the woman is going to try fix that reason so they can be together. Men need to be straight forward with women.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

No, if we don’t give a reason, she makes one up.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

And that almost always plays out even worse

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

You just can’t take accountability for that, so you’re blaming men for feeling like we have to justify ourselves to women who don’t understand that no means no.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

There’s a reason we feel the need to “soften the blow” and it’s because if we don’t, she hits back.

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 9w

Shut up pussy

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

They’re that undesirable that they can’t just find someone they like to have sex with? Instead they have sex with a girl they aren’t happy with smh

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

Wtf are you saying right now

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

What, you can’t read?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Men who reject you are not problems to be solved.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

Read dumb shit? Bruh I swear we’re becoming sissies. If you dont like a girl just end it, stop making up excuses. “I dont wanna hurt her feelings she’s gonna trip” yeah buddy she’s gonna trip from your lack of effort anyway

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

The fact that women “trip” when they’re rejected at all is the problem.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

People trip when they’re fired, does that mean they shouldn’t be fired? Tf are you talking about

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

That analogy makes no sense.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

It’s not that we aren’t firing them, we just stopped paying them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

Ending a relationship is the equivalent of firing an employee from a business jesus what are you 5

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

Except the employees in this case frequently do everything in their power to sue the company for firing them.

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Anonymous 9w

Fire the employee the moment you dont want them in the office? Cant believe there are guys walking around with this pussy mindset

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

So you’re too scared to fire them? Just say you’re not man enough to end a relationship bruh the rest of us will continue

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

Why on earth would you even want a relationship.

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Anonymous 9w

Bro wants to be oppressed so bad😭 The standards exist for BOTH genders you idiot. If a women isnt happy with a guy I would tell her to end it as well tf are you talking about

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

“You don’t like being insulted and threatened? What are you a pussy?” Give me a fuckin break dude.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

Bro if the woman is threatening and insulting you then get a fucking restraining order she’s crazy. Staying with her is fucked??

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

This is not about long term dating, OP just feels like she can dictate how men get to say no to her.

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