
Thanks for explaining I think sometimes when girls are given reasons for no, they try to find ways to “solve the problem” so it can be a yes They usually need to be told straight up “i dont want to be with you,” and if they cant accept that they have a problem lowkey. Most of the times tho, if a guy says reasons it wont work between them, a girl tries to make a solution. She’s confused and doesnt get you dont want her. Thats usually because the guy is softening the blow, be straight up
Nah what i’m saying is men a lot of times dont just tell a woman that they don’t want to be with them, but men should tell this to women. Cause when a guy says, “i cant be with you for X reason” the woman is going to try fix that reason so they can be together. Men need to be straight forward with women.