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Is it true that men will subconsciously assess the girls around them like whether they’d hit or not?

Anonymous 2w

Do girls not do this?

Anonymous 2w

Not really. At most I may acknowledge if a woman is particularly attractive. But definitely not “hit or not” assessment.

Anonymous 2w

Yeah more or less

Anonymous 2w

Honestly yeah. Sometimes it’s a automatic process too sometimes it’s a bit more thoughtful

Anonymous 2w

I’m not a sex craved beast, no.

Anonymous 2w

Yes

Anonymous 2w

If you would hit, do you ever imagine it in your head?

Anonymous 2w

It’s kind of like a mental reflex? I don’t act on these thoughts and I wish I could not have them because what I actually want isn’t decided by just surface level physical attraction

Anonymous

#2 2w

No it’s gross

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Anonymous

#2 2w

No unless I’m actively looking for someone to date or hookup with (and they’re not a friend)

Anonymous

#3 2w

I’m calling cap

Anonymous

#2 2w

Well, as a girlie, not unless I’m specifically going out for that yk? I usually don’t consider it at all until it’s brought up tbh but I’m somewhere on the ace spectrum soo. Like I process if they’re aesthetically attractive but whether I’d hit is another category entirely that I gotta have incentive to consider

Anonymous

#9 2w

And the way that looks is: I glance at her, think to myself “ohh she’s kinda cute”. Move on with my day.

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Anonymous

#2 2w

Not at all, at least in my experience

Anonymous

#11 2w

Though if a girl is attractive it might pop up in my mind, but not for long

Anonymous

#11 2w

Exactly!