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what’s the worst thing a woman has ever done to you?
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Anonymous 2w

We broke up, then she bombarded me with texts about how “I’m her only friend” and how she desperately needed me. I went back because I still loved her, then she essentially used me as a body pillow to rebound from me. She then (as she admitted, verbatim, later) intentionally waited until she had lost all feelings for me to take my virginity. She told me two weeks later that she was dating a new guy, and I’ve been told multiple times since to “stop making it weird”

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Anonymous 2w

Lied about being pregnant with my kid while I paid child support out of a sense of honor. I was doing relatively dangerous work at the time to gain funds to prepare for the baby coming. Then tried to get me to sign a custody/child support agreement on month 8 just before I found out the kid wasn’t mine.

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Anonymous 2w

Objectively S/A me, personally there’s nothing more frustrating than being gaslit

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Anonymous 2w

She cheated on AND dumped me while I was: 1. Grieving my childhood dog’s death 2. Accepting the end of my career and lifelong aspirations to become a doctor. 3. Preparing to have BRAIN SURGERY FOR A BRAIN TUMOR!!!

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Anonymous 2w

Sexually assaulted me ☹️

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Anonymous 2w

Getting cheated on twice with multiple men wasn’t very fun.

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Anonymous 2w

Cheated then try to gaslight me into thinking she wasn’t

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Anonymous 2w

First time that I got in bed with my first gf, she freaked out because I had some scars from childhood abuse. She basically ghosted me for a week after that, then hit me with a “I just banged another guy, I feel so bad about it that i think we should break up”. I was hella self-conscious about my body/scars for years, after that.

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Anonymous 2w

She sent me a voice message of her and her new shotgun marriage husband porking (it had been 6 months since we dated)

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Anonymous 2w

Ghosted

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

She started crying cause I was upset that she did something she said she’d never do again! THEN TRIED TO MAKE IT SEEM LIKE I WAS CRAZY FOR BEING UPSET

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_bacon 2w

as a girl who has been cheated on by both of my last two bfs, i do concur that it’s hard to believe in love after that shit 😒

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

bitch. my ex used me for sex also under the guise of “wanting us to be friends.” i feel ur pain

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Yeah it’s a reality check for sure and not a fun one

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_bacon 2w

it’s been like six months since my ex and i broke up bc he cheated on me and my self esteem is still bad. sometimes i don’t think ill ever date again bc he knew i was cheated on before him and cheated on me anyways :( what’s that phrase? safe from heartbreak if you never fall in love?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

my ex did that i literally caught him texting her and deleting it and he looked me dead in the eye and said “that’s not cheating!” 🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

We went to different schools but I knew her roommate’s boyfriend he told me she called him a liar her roommate help hide it from both of us

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Yeah, I’m excited for next semester, when she does not live two doors down from me

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

Gah damn were you dating the devil

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

IK… afterwards my entire social circle from my granny to my sister to my friends concurred he was an absolute asshole

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

Yea I know criminals with more of a heart than her

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

dude my mental health increased SIGNIFICANTLY when i graduated the college we both went to and started working instead but i still feel anxious and sad when i have to be on campus for any reason bc im afraid ill see him

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

what the fuck????? i thought my ex was bad i’m already choosing to never date again and here you are going through it even worse

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

It was about 2 years ago. I’ve let it go. I’ve moved on.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

That’s good

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2w

oh wow

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 2w

BOOO!!! WHAT A CUNT!!!!

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