Ask Men on Sidechat | Can you men PLEASEEEE stop going fishing, hunting, watching sports, and golfing ITS SOOOO BORINGGGG OMG. why does every single guy(like 99% of them around)do at least one of these activities I legit dont understand how there is a massive hive mind for it😭

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Ask Men 14h

Can you men PLEASEEEE stop going fishing, hunting, watching sports, and golfing ITS SOOOO BORINGGGG OMG. why does every single guy(like 99% of them around)do at least one of these activities I legit dont understand how there is a massive hive mind for it😭

Anonymous 14h

I love football but I would never subject a lady to watch it if she doesn’t want to. Golf however is lame as hell.

Anonymous 13h

I think any of these is fine as long as it’s not too much. Like watching sports in general is fine but I personally wouldn’t like watch every single nfl game every week when I have a gf

Anonymous 14h

Not a question

Anonymous 14h

I can’t speak for other guys, but hobbies like you’ve listed (esp fishing for me) is one of the best ways i can spend time with myself. Like that guy said, if a woman doesn’t want to do it then that’s fine, no worries. But it’s a very good way to just sit and exist and not have to worry about anything for a few hrs. It’s relaxing

Anonymous 8h

I don’t know I like it when guys have these hobbies or any hobbies at all you don’t see them coming for us when we say we like thrifting or something

Anonymous 13h

Wait but golfing can be fun, there’s some super cute outfits you can find too, the ugly old lady outfits are just advertised too often😕

🛠️

Anonymous 13h

I don’t even really like those things myself

Anonymous 9h

“Men stop having hobbies and interests”

Anonymous 7h

I mean those things can provide community and a fun hobby for em. I don’t think it’s bad as long as it’s not their whole personality, yk fishing pics on the dating apps, posted up with dead deer, constantly only talking about fantasy and their team, etc. that when it’s something that I understand can get annoying.

Anonymous 4h

I love being a gay guy bc I get to enjoy all of these interests except golf and dudes are more into me than they would be if I wasn't into these things.

Anonymous 7h

Add playing Fortnite and Call of Duty

Anonymous 7h

i think golfs boring, but every other part of this post is fuckin stupid

Anonymous 6h

“It’s so boring…” Ma’am that’s the WHOLE POINT. Like I go fishing to relax, it’s the equivalent of sitting out back tanning. I want to disengage my brain and slide that sucker into neutral for as long as time allows.

Anonymous 4h

Gender roles dictate many things including socially acceptable hobbies for men and women, for men those just happen to have included the ones you listed which is why it’s so common. I personally don’t have any of these hobbies but I’m pretty gender nonconforming so I’m a bit of an outlier

Anonymous 3h

It’s not about the activities themselves. It’s about the people you do those activities with and the connections those activities foster

Anonymous

#1 14h

Thanks dickless dan

Anonymous

OP 14h

Np maybe you’ll learn from your mistakes

Anonymous

#1 14h

No I need a guy with a dick to help me with that

Anonymous

OP 14h

Have you tried just learning instead of caring about people’s genitalia so much I hear it does wonders for

Anonymous

#1 14h

Nooo I’m obsessed with dicks sorry😔

Anonymous

#2 13h

currently at a golfing thing and I hate it here

Anonymous

#7 13h

The only golfing I’ll stand is mini golfing because the lanes look rlly cute especially with lights on at night

Anonymous

OP 13h

Mini golfing sounds like an amazing first date

Anonymous

OP 12h

I love mini golfing, I played competitive golf (like the normal golf) from 6-18 and it was super fun, but it’s how you make it. I love the pink golf balls and decorate them with a sharpie, and the views at some courses are so pretty (depends on where)

Anonymous

#7 12h

When men get agitated and overly competitive it takes all the fun out of it

Anonymous

#8 9h

Yes.

Anonymous

#11 7h

Thats exactly what I mean😮‍💨

Anonymous

OP 7h

I’m sure you’ll find guys who aren’t super into any of those, or at least don’t make it their whole life

😏

Anonymous

#5 7h

🤣🤣 so what brought you there?

Anonymous

#13 7h

nobody plays fortnite 🥀🥀

Anonymous

#13 6h

Thats so true AND the binding of issac, league of legends, marval rivals, and valorant

Anonymous

OP 6h

What’s wrong with marvel rivals?

Anonymous

#11 6h

In general the community is toxic as a concept playing it is fine. Like everything depends on the person

Anonymous

#4 5h

Yes this pretty much

Anonymous

#14 3h

Nooo its not INTRESTING! Obviously when I ask a person what they like to do its to talk about their interests, go do their interests, orrr get them something related to that but I cant get into any of those hobbies because its just a waste of time. Lile the fishing one since you cant even eat them, golfing is as fun as watching paint dry, sports is more fun to play, and hunting is what sociopaths do for fun

Anonymous

#17 3h

Especially sports. Sports teams are one of the many ways for people to have pride in the region they’re from, or like if a family member was a fan of a team and that gets passed down, it becomes something they can bond over. There’s also the crazy rivalries that sports give a healthy way to go at each other instead of something worse. Some of these rivalries formed over VERY violent actions like one school literally kidnapping and killing the other’s mascot, or in some cases, even worse things

Anonymous

#17 3h

Which btw is crazy that was a normalized thing that happened back in the day 😭 but yeah there’s some INSANE history behind some of the sports rivalries that exist today. It’s generational beef

Anonymous

#17 3h

Also lowkey hunting and fishing are not bad things to do every once in a while. Might as well make sure you’re still able to do both if things ever go sideways

Anonymous

#17 3h

Plus then you can cook whatever you catch (depending on if allowed or not), and that’s also probably a nice skill to have and it probably tastes better than whatever you can get at the store

Anonymous

#17 3h

I don’t do either, I’m giving some reasons for why some people do

Anonymous

#17 3h

And golfing I have 0 reasons for idk why anyone wastes money on it 😭 I guess for networking maybe? Who knows