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Ask Men 49w
Do y’all like when women message first?
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Ask Men 49w
Do you message first on dating apps?
#poll
Always
Never
Only the ones I like most
Sometimes / randomly
50 votes
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Anonymous 49w

Yes, it’s the same logic as when a woman asks a man out first. It makes us feel genuinely wanted, not just a ball and chain stuck to your leg

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Anonymous 49w

Yes

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Anonymous 49w

i dont care but it helps me to get to know them a lot better

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Anonymous 49w

Absolutely yes

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Anonymous 49w

Very much so

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Anonymous 49w

Yes because I will never

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