
I feel the root cause is that women get more attention from men so it’s not the end of the world if they ghost someone. They can also play victim card, society loves protecting them. I think the solution is men to stop giving women attention and immediately leave after the first sign of shitty behavior
If I match I’d say there’s like a 70% chance my first message doesn’t work unless I’m drunk and then it’s like a 80% chance of working. But I’m sober now, so I just pick myself back up and try again, with the same person because I refuse to swipe unless I’m sure it’s not going to work and then I unadd, but I send like four paragraphs, and usually they respond within a day.