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Not even being a pick me, I’ve been thinking about dating from a guy’s perspective. I know girls, including me, ghost or unmatch without explanation, and I can’t imagine how confusing or discouraging that must feel for men.
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Anonymous 4w

I don’t think it’s being a pick me to have empathy

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Anonymous 4w

Crazy that acknowledging that men have emotions is pick me now

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Anonymous 4w

that’s called empathy

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Anonymous 4w

Obviously men do it too but I’ve never had it happen to me so like not sure how I would feel abt it

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Anonymous 4w

it goes both ways tbh. it’s just called empathy, friend 😭

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Anonymous 4w

Thanks for saying this. Yes, it sucks

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Anonymous 4w

Asked for a girls number the other day after we hit it off on hinge and she just unadded me

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Anonymous 4w

I feel the root cause is that women get more attention from men so it’s not the end of the world if they ghost someone. They can also play victim card, society loves protecting them. I think the solution is men to stop giving women attention and immediately leave after the first sign of shitty behavior

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Anonymous 3w

I’m not trying to be rude or anything but.. literally no shit??

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Anonymous 3w

This post kills me😭

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Anonymous 3w

If you’re getting ghosted before you make it off the app, you have no reason to feel sad about it 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

it happens, just gotta shake it off and move on

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I get kind of pissed off, then I send a wall of text and it usually works somehow.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

If I match I’d say there’s like a 70% chance my first message doesn’t work unless I’m drunk and then it’s like a 80% chance of working. But I’m sober now, so I just pick myself back up and try again, with the same person because I refuse to swipe unless I’m sure it’s not going to work and then I unadd, but I send like four paragraphs, and usually they respond within a day.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Sad as that is, it very much IS. But personally, I’d pick her every time.

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