Ask Men on Sidechat | This isn't really a question but I don't think many men fully grasp the breadth of what Rape or sexual assault is. I think a lot of men have violated women and either don't know or don't think it was a big deal because it wasn't as violent as Cornell case

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This isn't really a question but I don't think many men fully grasp the breadth of what Rape or sexual assault is. I think a lot of men have violated women and either don't know or don't think it was a big deal because it wasn't as violent as Cornell case

Anonymous 10h

I understand your point but this can be a dangerous generalization, I think the bad voices are usually the loudest. You know a vast amount of boys/ men have also been raped and sexually assaulted both by other grown men and women too, it’s just not talked about as much because it’s seen as ‘lesser’ for a man to ‘complain’ about getting fucked by a woman and also seen as ‘gay/ weak’ for getting assaulted by a man

Anonymous 8h

That is not true. Simply the men who do these things are the ones getting the attention, so it seems there are more bad ones than good ones. This is understandable and obviously any man who does this is not a man but a pig and a coward and a piece of shit

Anonymous 11h

they don’t bruh like hearing a woman say no once is all you need like don’t matter if the bih looks like megan foxx pressuring someone into giving it up is just egregious me personally

Anonymous

#2 8h

Damn thanks for writing that fr and no doubt about the shadow isolation

Anonymous

#1 8h

A lot of this behavior stems from the “psychology” obsessed, hyper logic ( to the point of tism), “alpha” presenting pickup “artists” and podcasters that feed red pill incell echo chambers that seem to be effective on young boys with wounded egos

Anonymous

#2 50m

I don't think it's a dangerous generalization. I think it's an accurate one. I've seen several polls and posts here on the past few days of guys saying things like keeping going when a woman wants to stop or taking the condom off without her consent is not SA. It is. I think men's view of rape is of things like the Cornell case where it's outrageously violent and brutal. SA isn't always as loud and in your face and I think we can do a much better job educating youth on the varying types of SA

Anonymous

#2 48m

And consent. I think our sex ed although it has come a long way is still seriously lacking. I know men get assaulted and I agree that's horrible. No victim should feel shame for something that wasn't their fault. But again my point isn't about who is getting assaulted although my post was more pointed as straight men being perpetrators, it's about the lack of education

Anonymous

#4 46m

Oh for sure it's not "all men" but my point is I don't think many men fully understand SA and I think there are some who have done it without even knowing or thinking of it as SA. We need better education. Sure not all your friends are rapists but almost every woman I know has been violated. So it's enough where we clearly need to fix how we talk about this and prevent it

Anonymous

#1 45m

Nah man I agree forcing someone into sex with you who doesn't want it is embarrassing asf and fucked up but my point is SA doesn't always look like a violent forcible act, sometimes it's more lowkey so I don't think all men even know when they're doing it

Anonymous

OP 4m

Who the hell is saying that? I’ll kill them