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I’m so confused why men talk so much about things they wanna do with you and all this and then the second you try to make actual plans they’re so incredibly flaky like please tell me why this happens
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Anonymous 21h

You’re cooler as a fantasy and an idea than as an actual person or relationship I have to put work into

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Anonymous 17h

TELL ME ABOUT IT

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Anonymous 16h

men who act like that aren't ready for an relationship. they don't know what they actually want, and think that telling you things they believe you want to hear will give them more time to decide. then when it gets down to the wire, they chicken out and flake. its immature

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 19h

brutally honest

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17h

they’re generally posers too

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 16h

this account supports cheating and jot trusting your partner. don't believe anything he says

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 16h

What does what my account says have to do with me answering the OPs question genuinely? Do u want to tell lies and sugarcoated falsities?

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 16h

i'm just letting them know that you're not a good person to take relationship advice from because you don't see the value of loyalty and trust.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16h

If anything that would make me more qualified to answer this question. Do you think the kind of man OP is referring to the kind of man that cares anything about loyalty and trust in a relationship?

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 16h

probably not but your response makes it seem like its all men, when majority of men do believe in loyalty and trust. most men date to marry.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16h

most believe it but don’t practice it

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16h

My response didn’t make anything seem like that. You assumed everything. I never said men, or men as a whole. I said I, because I was answering the question as a man who would think like that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16h

Most men do not date to marry, at least not until their late 20s and 30s. Most dudes are just trying to get by and stay afloat and make something of themselves currently. Sure some people want to marry and some don’t, but don’t say “most”

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 16h

that's just not true. i'm a man who is dating to marry and im only 23. so do most of my peers, in fact one of my friends just got engaged. you're the one who is the outlier here

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16h

“That’s just not true, IM dating to marry, and most of my friends are too” ahh so because YOU are, and YOUR friend just got engaged, surely that means MOST men are dating to marry? Of course of course, I should have factored in you and your friends first

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 16h

its not even just my friends, it's everyone. why would u date someone if you have no intention of marrying them?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16h

Because men bro; that’s the answer.

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 16h

why is it "manly" to play with women like this? why wouldn't you want to put in effort to see the women u like? again this is normal concept and i wouldn't expect someone like u to understand. hence why i warned OP

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16h

Because men that’s why lmao hello? Do you live under a rock? Have u ever talked to women about guys they date and their experiences or do you just think all men are like you and your friends?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16h

You’re speaking in concepts and ideals and not in reality. You’re not speaking in what actually happens , stop living in lala land and get real.

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 16h

i talk to my girlfriend abt it all the time. you're the one living in lala land buddy

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16h

Ok anon

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