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Ask Men 10w

im so done with guys dating me and me not being their type, BE SHALLOW!!! dont give me a chance, dont try me out, am i asking for too much? why do guys ask girls they dont find attractive out?

Anonymous 10w

Because they’re desperate. It’s stupid

Anonymous 10w

A lot of men perceive that they have no real option so they’ll jump at a chance to date a girl even if they’re unsure about compatibility

Anonymous 10w

There is also the thought that not all relationships are completely transparent in the beginning. You never know how a relationship could turn out, good or bad.

Anonymous 10w

I don’t have much of a chance as is so I’m gonna take what I can get

Anonymous 10w

I hate when girls like tall guys with big Ds so I don’t wanna be hypocritical

Anonymous

#4 10w

but would you want to date someone who would rather be dating a tall guy and big D just because they were told “it’s unfair to have preferences”? you deserve to be wanted for who you are babes

Anonymous

OP 10w

It’s a good thing when women have high standards. It makes earning the affection and trust of a partner more special. Even still women’s tastes very broadly, their always having to tell their friends “hear me out”

Anonymous

#2 10w

LOL, thats a funny way to think of it, but yes there is a shoe for every sock, the most attractive man i ever dated got a meh from my bestie, everyone varies!! but i will say the way you said it reminded me of cats haha

Anonymous

OP 10w

It is kinda like cats, but I love cats. It does feel like men that are most successful dating women enjoy wooing and winning over a women and don’t resent them for having high expectations

Anonymous

#2 10w

i totally agree, i don’t think i’ve been wooed before, but if someone just took a little time to get to know me i would be so easy 😭

Anonymous

OP 10w

I feel like people have gotten so confused about what they actually want in a relationship, they think the problem is that they’re not dating hot enough people. Men just want to feel capable and recognized and women just want someone who is committed and appreciative of them. We’ve lost sight of that

Anonymous

#2 10w

that is literally the perfect description thank you for laying it out like that 🙏

Anonymous

#5 10w

so would you be okay dating a girl who doesn’t really think your attractive at all?

Anonymous

OP 10w

As long as she’s not an asshole about it then yeah. That hypothetical begs the question though, why would a woman who finds nothing attractive about me at all be trying to date me in the first place?

Anonymous

#5 10w

thats what asking in my original question, why do you want to date someone you dont find attractive? its happened to me a couple times and im really close yo giving up on dating

Anonymous

OP 10w

If I was dating I’d be doing it to love a woman romantically, but it’s unlikely I’m gonna find a a date any time soon so I’m not gonna have much preferences

Anonymous

#5 10w

that answers my question, thank you!

Anonymous

#2 10w

The whole point of a date is to test your uncertainty about compatibility….