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Is it wrong to not want to immediately meet up with a guy you just started texting

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Anonymous 24w

No, Id say thats being pretty safe tbh

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Anonymous 24w

it’s not wrong but if u don’t feel comfortable try to meet in a public space don’t just let him “come over”

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Anonymous 24w

I don’t even meet up with girls I just started talking to

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Anonymous 24w

I’m not even gonna lie I’m still trying to figure out the midpoint between ‘it’s too soon to meet up yet’ and getting ghosted.

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Anonymous

#1 24w

Just checking cause I’m wondering if I’m in the wrong for doing that

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Anonymous

OP 24w

Is this like a total stranger? Out of curiosity. Wouldn't change my answer

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Anonymous

#2 24w

Right? I started talking to this guy today and he keeps pushing it

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Anonymous

#1 24w

Dating app

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Anonymous

OP 24w

red flag

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Anonymous

#3 24w

Yeah im a bit perturbed

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Anonymous

OP 24w

Call him on being pushy

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Anonymous

#1 24w

Well he later said let him know when he wants to come over

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Anonymous

OP 24w

That feels icky

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Anonymous

#1 24w

Yeah it doesn’t feel right but I don’t want to be mean

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Anonymous

OP 24w

Sometimes you gotta be mean

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