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Ask Men 38w
so guys i’m a little chubby, but like in all the right places but i also come with a belly. i’m so insecure about myself. a guy who i’ve never met before asked to go get coffee sometime. i’m worried he’ll think i’m fat. should i be worried
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Anonymous 38w

Like #3 said, if he asked you out, he already thinks you’re attractive. He may genuinely see you as thicc and curvy rather than fat.

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Anonymous 38w

No ur overthinking

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Anonymous 38w

Not at all. The worst thing that could happen is that he doesn’t want to go on a second date - there’s no penalty for trying. In all likelihood he’ll probably worry more about he’s coming off than you. It’s important that you keep going on dates so that you build security and comfort - those things are necessary when you are actually in a relationship

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Anonymous 38w

Go for it. Just remember you’re you. If they don’t appreciate you, they don’t deserve your time.

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Anonymous 37w

no you shouldn’t be worried. Even if he thinks you’re fat, it’s no big deal he just wasn’t the one for you. And if he’s asked you out he’s already attracted to you in some way. You got thisssss <3

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Anonymous 37w

You’re fine. Don’t worry about it

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Anonymous 37w

If that doesn’t work out I’ll take you out instead haha

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 37w

Also, men realize that women get to be thicc or skinny… the two are mutually exclusive… unless one has a very skilled plastic surgeon 😅😅😅

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 37w

Tbf OP said they’ve never met so maybe he hasn’t seen but idk, I would totally be down for a curvy woman

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 37w

we’ve never met but he follows me on insta and we snap back and forth so he’s seen me

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Anonymous replying to -> oranguru 37w

thank you ☺️

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Anonymous replying to -> sunset_football 37w

thank you 🥹

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 37w

💋💋

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 37w

Then he thinks you’re hot, what’s the issue

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