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If I dropped a list of things I picked up on from a man can you determine if it’s flirting or just being nice
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Anonymous 20w

Yes yes keep it coming what else

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Anonymous 20w

Sounds a lil past just being nice honestly

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Anonymous 20w

Probably as long as you describe kinda what the guy is like

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Anonymous 20w

I Mean what do you want to know? He’s pretty reserved when we have gone out, serious abt his life, is deeply giving towards others and communities in huge ways,

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20w

But if you want more confirmation you could always just do small actions like touching his shoulder or something like that and see what happens

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20w

Also it was raining hard after the race thing and he was exhausted fr so I got him talking abt his hobby and he thanked me later for letting him ramble? And has asked me twice now in different contexts and occasions that I could spend the night? It has not happened. And also the gym, we went together today and I NEVER go with ppl. He was a good teacher and I think spotted me idk hood up music in, not paying attention besides pain. Pushed me to be better and thanked me for coming

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

Alright well other stuff I would say off the dome is that guys understand when things could come off as flirting most of the time. So like the things with his jacket and the inviting you over generally are seen as things that are not friendly if that makes sense. Another thing you could do is ask him if he does that with other people although that is a little more aggressive on trying to understand what’s going on

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

Ok yeah you’re golden I would bet on him probably liking you. Just try to show that you’re interested and hopefully it’ll all work out

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20w

Hear me out- we are old classmates from school and genuinely haven’t spoken in 10 years. I know how we got back in contact as minimum as it was and for my part why, probably the same as his- exes… But over time he just began sending me reels and eventually asked me to go hang out. Is it wise to ask why he has taken a kin to me? I can water it down with mentioning that it was all mainly reels until now. Throw in a joke like he needed friends or smth to do

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20w

I invited him out this Saturday and it should work out. I hope I get drunk and ride on his bike again

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

Honestly if that helps you in trying to see what’s going on between you two I don’t see a reason not to, but yes of course try to water it down don’t be blunt with it

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