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Do guys automatically assume I’m hitting on them if I tell them they smell good, because some of yall smell good and I want to say so
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Anonymous 20w

I told a guy he looked good because he lost weight and he went and told everyone I wanted to suck his dick so I dont try to compliment anymore

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Anonymous 20w

depending on the guy for sure but most men will think that’s you hitting on them

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Anonymous 20w

It really just depends on the situation

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Anonymous 20w

If another girl told your boyfriend he smelled good, would you think she was hitting on him?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20w

Oh no good to keep in mind

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20w

I’m sorry you have experienced that 😭 wtf

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 20w

What if it’s a friend and not a random man

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

I would think a friend would be less likely to think you were hitting on him. If one of my friends complimented me I’d be grateful but wouldn’t think much else of it unless it was part of a pattern of behavior she only exhibited towards me. If a random woman approached me and gave me a compliment, I might at least suspect interest depending on the compliment, her body language, and whether she tries to turn that into a conversation

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

a friend is different, i get complimented by coworkers and friends but if a random girl said something most would assume they’re getting hit on

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 20w

no, and even if she was i would trust my bf.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 20w

More context is needed for me to make that call

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