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I want to try to approach guys I find attractive, but 99.9% of the time they are taken. Is it even worth trying if I already know what the answers going to be? I just want to spare myself the embarrassment
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Anonymous 2w

eh 99.9% is a stretch, might just be telling you they're taken so you'll back off

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Anonymous 2w

It’s not true that 99.9% of guys you’re attracted to our taken unless you really like guys with wedding rings

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Anonymous 2w

Yea most people get rejected that’s how it works

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Anonymous 2w

Thats 💯% not true. I bet you $1,000 that only about 20-40% of people in their twenties have a partner

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Anonymous 2w

Ngl 8/10 times if the guy doesn’t come up to you there’s a reason alotta times they’re just not interested

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Anonymous replying to -> oranguru 2w

Also there’s absolutely no shame in being shameless with your approaches. You have to be flooding the zone with volume if you want to win at dating. If you’re not regularly asking people out you’re gonna have a way more difficult time finding partnership

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

Also, in the rare instances when he is actually taken, men will always be so polite about it. The worse possible scenario would be :“hey. Thank you. But I’m actually seeing someone”.

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