Ask Men on Sidechat | Why is it that lonely men are considered “dodged bullets”? I mean don’t get me wrong there’s definitely some really sour apples but that’s in every group. They get such a negative connotation for having mental health issues which is just stigma

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Why is it that lonely men are considered “dodged bullets”? I mean don’t get me wrong there’s definitely some really sour apples but that’s in every group. They get such a negative connotation for having mental health issues which is just stigma

Anonymous 2w

It’s not that you’re lonely, it’s the behaviors often developed while lonely. If you become a bitter, angry, unpleasant person, then thats your shit to work through, no one else owes it to you to endure your bullshit.

Anonymous 2w

People who hate men forget we’re people too sometimes. Which if you’re considering dating or befriending a man at all it’s kinda a bad thing. Idk ur ultimately allowed to have preferences at the end of the day but i honestly think the good men are often more lonely than the bad ones bc they’re actually calling out bad behavior in other men.

Anonymous 2w

if you are lonely it means you either don't try to or can't make friends, both of which are bad things

Anonymous

#2 2w

Though its true sometimes ppl let loneliness stop them from being good, which i definitely do.

Anonymous

#4 2w

I definitely think there are people who fit either of those without being bad people though. Sometimes you don’t vibe with the people around you and sometimes you’re too busy to make friends or it’s just not a priority and it’s only mildly bad or neutral.