Nope! My ex had really really big insecurities and believed nobody could ever find him attractive. It didn’t bother me, we all have our stuff… I just saw it as my job to let him see how much I was attracted to him

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It’s definitely something I’d recommend you work on for yourself though, just for your own quality of life. Sometimes it’s hard to believe your partner could ever be attracted to you when you don’t think you are yourself… it did cause some intimacy issues for us, but those were a bigger deal for him than it was for me. He always kept me satisfied, but he wanted to do more I suppose

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Sometimes absolutely. If your partner is so insecure that they dont see their worth it can put u in a weird position that you feel like u have to convince them that you like them. Or at least thats happened to me several times. Obv patience is key but it can make it harder to communicate if their insecurity prevents them from trusting you in that way

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Also…. Did you mean to ask women? (I’m JUST realizing this is under “ask men” I’m sorry 😭) or did you actually mean to ask men about other men?

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it depends tbh

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It’s difficult to deal with the other way around that’s for sure

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Its a pain, I feel like people like that can be bitter and lash out. I'm saying this as someone somewhat like that who dated a woman who was even worse, it was ROUGH

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my ex was super insecure and he cheated on me. there were no signs i just randomly went through his phone expecting to find his nerdy little interests but boy was i wrong. be careful.

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