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I actually almost forgot that ppl who are not asexual perceive attraction differently! Like they tend to think attractive = good-looking or sexually appealing, but my version of attractiveness depends more on personality and inward traits.
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So THAT’S why friends tend to say “of course you’re attractive” to each other (platonically), they’re telling each other they’re good-looking and appealing. My friend actually asked me recently if I found anyone attractive (she has a boyfriend), and I said I’ve met a lot of nice ppl… but no one necessarily attractive to me. I’m so stupid 😭

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