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me and my family are pretty poor and so sometimes we miss bills and payments and this time we are having to stay in a hotel and all i can think about is how we are gonna recover from this and i havent been able to eat i just feel so sick and anxious
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Anonymous 1d

In this case what I would do is maybe go to a public library during the day and pretend your reading a book and go to sleep 😅

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Anonymous 1d

Are you serious

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

sorry?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Are you ok

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

idk its hard but im trying to remind myself it could be worse and we still have a roof over our heads for at least tonight

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Do you at least have a job or any type of savings you can use in the meantime or maybe a friend house or family house you can go to🤷‍♀️ like you cant be completely alone that you dont have absolutely nobody🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

i do have a job but its fast food i dont make much. i used my savings to help my mom get a car since hers got taken. i lost all of my friends after graduating and i dont have much family except my parents

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Umm ok yeah that sounds like a tough situation.... So like what are you expecting from this like do you want to have people on here just send you money or what is this really about 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

no i dont want money. isnt the point of this to vent anonymously? i just wanted to talk about it. i dont want handouts

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

op I’m so sorry and I hope you’re able to figure it out. this is not a normal situation, so don’t be surprised that you’re having big feelings that are difficult to handle.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I think you can also make a GoFund me account and maybe get some help there from a lot people that would like to donate

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

i know i just dont feel my situation is bad enough. i really didnt mean for it to seem like i wanted money i just wanted to vent i suppose im sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Oh ok, well thanks for clarifying that at least that was helpful to understand your situation

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

You sound like a major asshole . wtf. They are just venting

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16h

Buddy, in what way did I say anything disrespectful all I said was thanks for clarifying 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ like what.... I cant say thank you now is that such a crime 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

your situation is definitely bad enough :/ i don’t want you to think i’m trying to force you to take help but the situation you’re in will be very hard to grow from in the long term. i’d consider it if i was in your situation.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12h

i appreciate that. i just dont want to show my face and i dont think id get much traction. especially with everything happening in the world rn everyone is struggling and trying to make do with what they have. my parents are also have too much pride and would be angry if i came and asked people for anything. i really appreciate the advice and if its isnt resolved soon i will definitely look into it ❤️❤️

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