Anxiety on Sidechat | going through a breakup and my anxiety is through the roof since I was the one that broke up with her. I never wanted to hurt her, but after the break up she proved to me I made the right choice. She’s constantly texting me and spiraling and idk what todo

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Anxiety 3w

going through a breakup and my anxiety is through the roof since I was the one that broke up with her. I never wanted to hurt her, but after the break up she proved to me I made the right choice. She’s constantly texting me and spiraling and idk what todo

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Anonymous 3w

Has made comments about hurting herself and I contacted her family and then last night said that since she can’t hold a relationship she’s declining her med school acceptances since she wouldn’t be able to keep someone alive. I just don’t know what to do

Anonymous 3w

Recently went through almost the exact same thing chief. Except she broke up with me and lashed out before I could explain myself. And yeah. Proved that I needed to move on.

Anonymous

#1 3w

Like in the moment i was scared i wasn’t making the right choice and then when it all blew up i was like ohhhh yeah thank god

Anonymous

OP 3w

That’s not on you. It sounds like you did what’s best for both of you tbh

Anonymous

#2 3w

Thank you I just feel so bad like I caused this

Anonymous

#2 3w

We were even together long, I mean four months ago she didn’t know I even existed

Anonymous

OP 3w

i think you just have to let her spiral. it’s not your fault nor your responsibility to deal with, you’ve alerted her family and they can handle it from here. if you think she’s serious, you can call and say she’s threatening to hurt herself and she might be put on a hold, but that’s pretty extreme unless you truly think she needs that level of intervention to be safe. but it’s not your fault, and not your problem to deal with, it’s hers. i hope you’re doing okay 🫂

Anonymous

#3 3w

Thank you i really appreciate it