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I yearn for friends but I feel like I’m unlikable and a bad person. And I’m too anxious to talk to people first. And I can’t do small talk. Idk what’s wrong with me
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Anonymous 2w

Met my husband in a Whataburger random things happen!

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Anonymous 2w

finding friends will happen eventually in the weirdest ways possible. often times the best friends that will appear will happen in crazy ways that you end up skipping the small talk. my best friend for example, we met in a crazy situation. we had to skip the small talk. so honestly connection will happen i promise you are likable.

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Anonymous 1w

Don’t let anxiety control the narrative! It can really skew your perception of yourself. You can find your people. That being said, you are probably going to have to put work into reaching out to people. Which, anxiety makes very fun and easy 💀💀 Just know that if it’s hard to make friends, it doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you or that you’re unlikable.

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Anonymous 2w

I do want to have friends too…I lost my best friend this year in a tragic shooting incident….cant event say it without getting emotional

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Anonymous 1w

Me but with dating 😒

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Anonymous 2w

try a little harder

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I’m trying I swear.

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