Anxiety on Sidechat | I just need to get this off my chest pls don’t mind me. Ok so I was SA’d by my babysitter when I was abt 10 and since then I just haven’t been able to get used to women being down there. My ONGYN was a woman and ong every time I saw her it was like (1/3)

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Anxiety 1w

I just need to get this off my chest pls don’t mind me. Ok so I was SA’d by my babysitter when I was abt 10 and since then I just haven’t been able to get used to women being down there. My ONGYN was a woman and ong every time I saw her it was like (1/3)

Anonymous 1w

She was intentionally trying to hurt me. I asked for a male gyno and she said I shouldn’t, she didn’t use lube once, and when I was literally IN TEARS she told me “welcome to womanhood” (2/3)

Anonymous

OP 1w

Anyways I moved, found a new gyno, told them I have had bad interactions w women in the past and they gave me a 85 yo white man, and tell me why this old ass white man is the only person who has respected my requests, asked if I felt discomfort, told me it wasn’t normal for me to feel pain during sex, etc. Like… as a brown girl idk how to feel but at this point I’m ride or die for this yt grandpa I actually feel like a human being when he talks to me and he used HEATED LUBE??? Hello???

Anonymous

OP 1w

Anyways he recommended that I get tested for endometriosis and for some reason I feel some part of me is slowly getting over medical trauma bc of this little old dude whose mom died of ovarian cancer that prompted him to pursue a career in gynecology and for some reason he’s the most respectful person I’ve met. I’m no longer afraid of the funk bc of Melvin ❤️

Anonymous

OP 1w

He sounds like an angel 😭 I'm so glad you found an OBGYN who's treating you with the respect and kindness you deserve