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am i the only one that’s getting anxious that my hs friends are distancing from me or js don’t wanna be friends with me anymore? i feel like it’s my fault bc ive been too busy with college but i also can’t help it yk? am i overthinking this?
#overthinking#college#friendships
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Anonymous 3w

you’re most likely never going to be as close as you once were, but as long as you keep talking and occasionally hanging out you’ll be fine. also if they’re in college too, they could be feeling the same way

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Anonymous 3w

I genuinely feel like this all the time. 2/3 friends just didn’t really like college and dropped out so now they’re home together constantly and I’m just stuck here. We barely text anymore and I see them when I go home but I feel like it’s just not the same. I know that’s life though just kind of gotta figure out how to make plans or wtv when I’m home

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Anonymous 3w

I feel the same way

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Anonymous 3w

Life happens this is a cannon effect that happens to everyone, enjoy hangouts when u get to see them, and also focus on making new friends where u r, its not that deep ik it can hurt but yeah

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

we hang out when i come home to visit but they’re all in high school still and can see each other all the time so i feel like im slowly being removed from the group js bc im in college yk they barely talk to me individually or respond to what i say in the gc too i js dont know if im thinking too much into it yk

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

that’s exactly how i feel rn it’s js not the same anymore yk

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